Tuesday, November 9, 2010

Wade's New Adventure...

OK - so I'm just going to flat out brag for awhile here...

Wade is pretty amazing for a lot of reasons, but one of the things I appreciate most about him, especially in these crazy economic times, is that I've never worried for a second about our financial security. Now that doesn't mean we'll ever be millionaires or that there aren't times when things are tight, but I know that no matter what happens, he'll find a way to make things
work. I'm not sure I've ever met someone that works as hard or is as determined as Wade. I'm not the only one that has noticed. Wade has a way with leaving an impression on those he works with. More than a few people have tried to hire Wade away from his job at RAPP. Usually, he doesn't even entertain the idea, but recently, something came around that is interesting enough to think about.

After about 5 years with RAPP, who have been very good to us, Wade's going to make the jump to a smaller agency called Rockfish Interactive. Wade will be heading up a spin off project called CouponFactory - which is poised to rival other digital coupon providers such as coupons.com. If you're the type of person who is interested in this kind of thing, check out CouponFactory's website or on facebook.




The best part is - their LOCAL! We don't have to move! I am SO NOT ready to do that again!

Sunday, October 10, 2010

Noah's Personal Heaven...

A couple of little boys just moved in 2 doors down from us (yea!) and Noah spent all evening playing trucks in the dirt with them. I wasn't surprised that the first thing he said the next morning was "trucks"! He pulled his little diggers out there before I could even get shoes on him, and got right to it. When I came out to bring his shoes (which he never would put on) I couldn't help but get a few pictures of the little guy. Really - this IS Noah! To top it all off, they were digging a foundation across the street. Playing with your diggers while watching diggers...for Noah, heaven!




Wednesday, September 22, 2010

Aruba!

Wade and I just returned from our 10th anniversary getaway (belated) to Aruba and let me tell you...mentally I'm still there!

Right now I'm SO missing this:

This was the view from our balcony. I can't help but stare at it longingly now!

I'm also missing this:

My wardrobe for the week! Nothing better than rolling out of bed after an uninterrupted 10 hours, throwing on a swimsuit and heading to the beach. No schedule. No responsibilities. No make up!

Yes, Aruba was fabulous! The beach and the resort were beautiful, but the best part was just having Wade all to myself for a few days!

We didn't do much...spent most of our time in a lounge chair under a palapa on the beach, relaxing on a float out in the Caribbean, or cooling off in the pool. Actually, we probably spent the more time than anything people watching...and there was no shortage of worthy subjects!

Here's a few pictures I managed to take between naps...

We ate dinner on the beach while we watched the sun go down...
The sunsets were amazing!
We had a couple of pretty good storms blow through, thanks to hurricane Igor. They were usually pretty short lived, but kept things exciting!
Besides, storms make for great sunsets!
We also took a sunset cruise...expected to watch the sunset with the wind blowing through our hair while sipping virgin pina coladas from the "open bar"...turned out to be more of a hot, sticky, float (seriously, we were hardly moving) and the coconut milk in the pina coladas had gone bad. Oh well, at least we were together!



In the end, it was a wonderful, much needed break from lives that have been a little overwhelming as of late. Wade left his laptop at home and I, all things autism. We just spent time doing completely selfish things! We've been home for 4 days. Is it too soon to start planning another escape??!!

Monday, August 23, 2010

First Day of School!

We made it! The first day of school is here - and it's about time 'cause these kids were BORED! They claim not to be all that excited about school starting, but neither of them could sleep last night...hopefully it was more excitement and less angst! Either way, I'm willing to bet they're having fun now that they're there!
Addison & Drew ready to start 1st & 3rd grade!

Thursday, August 5, 2010

Confronting the "A word"...


Most of you know that we've had concerns with Noah for some time now. He was diagnosed with having a speech delay about a year ago and has been in speech therapy since. He's made amazing progress, and although he's still behind, can communicate pretty effectively at this point. We'd hoped that Noah's improved ability to communicate would resolve some other behaviors that we've worried about, but there hit a point this spring that we felt there was more to Noah's situation than just a communication issue. We decided to have him assessed by a pediatric developmental psychologist in hopes of figuring out what that might be. It's taken a couple of months and a number of appointments to complete a full assessment. It's a pretty in depth process - includes everything from interviewing Wade and I and Noah's speech therapist to completing play assessments and standardized tests. Our final appointment was Tuesday - the "big one" during which she FINALLY handed over a diagnosis. We've suspected autism for awhile now, so it wasn't a surprise when our suspicions were confirmed that Noah is in fact autistic - more specifically, he has "mild-moderate autistic disorder".


So what the heck does that mean?! Even after reading numerous books and articles about Autistic disorders and discussing the diagnosis with the psychologist, Wade and I still needed to come home and do a little research to figure out what we're really looking at. Unfortunately, the diagnosis of Autism is not an exact science. The "spectrum" is huge and not everyone looks at the different classifications within the spectrum the same way (which is REALLY frustrating!!). So, let me see if I can lay it out here for any of you that want details...


Usually, we've seen the autistic spectrum and it's classifications laid out like this with
PDD-NOS sitting at the mild end of the spectrum and each classification becoming more severe as you move to the right:

PDD-NOS-----Asperger's-----High-functioning Autism (HFA)-----Classic Autism


So, we expected to find out Noah was in the PDD or (worst case) Asperger's categories. So when we got the diagnosis of mild autism (which she also explained as HFA), we were surprised, thinking that he was worse than we thought. We've come to realize that this is not necessarily true. This visual we'd been referencing is totally misleading. PDD-NOS, Asperger's and HFA can all occur at various levels of severity. A kid with PDD or Asperger's can be worse off than a kid with HFA. Also, HFA is not technically a recognized diagnosis - so we might as well just throw that out! Once we figured all that out, we've come to look at the spectrum a little differently. Here's a quick tutorial on the basics of ASDs (how we understand it anyway!):


Basically, there are 3 buckets ASD kids get thrown into:


  1. PDD-NOS (Pervasive Developmental Disorder - Not Otherwise Specified): This category is sort of a catch-all for the kids that clearly have something going on, but can't definitively be placed in any other category. The range in severity can be pretty broad, but if they don't meet the full criteria for autism or Aspergers, they often end up here. This is what we expected Noah to be diagnosed with.


  2. Asperger's Syndrome: Asperger's is basically the same as mild autism. The difference is that Asperger's kids don't have speech delay. Since Noah has a speech delay, he can't be Asperger's.


  3. Classic Autism: There is a set of criteria called the DSM-IV that a child has to meet to be classified as autistic. If a child is PDD or Asperger's, they do not meet that criteria and are not classically "autistic", rather they have an "autistic spectrum disorder" - there's a difference. Within classic autism, there's a range of severity...mild (like Noah) all the way up to the kids that have severe autism (the unresponsive kid rocking in the corner).

When it comes right down to it, the treatments for all ASDs are basically the same, so the diagnosis really does not affect what kinds of treatments we'll seek out for Noah. However, when it comes to school districts and insurance companies, I think having a classic autism diagnosis will work in our favor - it's all about the labels with them. Before we had Noah's diagnosis, the school district qualified Noah for speech services only. I emailed them a copy of our diagnosis Tuesday, and they're already working on setting up another meeting with me to review and adjust his services. We've been trying to get Noah into the school district's developmental preschool. I don't think we'll have a problem getting him in now.


Besides services with the district, we're taking Noah to a clinic in Austin August 26th & 27th to look into biomedical treatments. The medical director there, Dr. Bryan Jepson, used to be an ER doc in Utah, until his own son was diagnosed with autism and he started researching treatments. He ended up opening a biomedical clinic in Utah, but has since moved to this clinic in Austin. Autism is largely considered untreatable by the mainstream mental health and medical communities. However, it's being found now that autism is treatable by approaching it as a metabolic disorder and treating it medically rather than just as a psychological disorder. The basis of biomedical approach focuses on 4 general areas: gastrointestinal, neurological, toxicological and immunological. Treatments often include diet, nutritional supplementation and detoxification. I've read a few books now about the biomedical approach (one written by Dr. Jepson) and it makes a ton of sense. Most autistic kids suffer from a myriad of underlying medical symptoms. For example, 80%+ of Autistic kids have significant GI issues (Noah being one of them). Why so prevalent if autism is solely a psychological disorder??!! The biomedical approach is considered pretty controversial, but the evidence in it's favor is strong and if there's a possibility it can help Noah, how can we not take a look at it? We're viewing this as a fight - one we're going to approach from every possible angle which means we plan to go after some of the more traditional treatments as well. Most of those fall under behavioral/mental health therapies. Anyway - TMI??!! Trust me - I can go on and on!!! Hopefully, I've been able to explain this in a way that makes sense to those of you that want to know. I've embedded a couple of links you may want to look at for further detail (ha!). We just want to make sure everyone is "informed".


All in all - we have every reason to believe that if anyone can progress away from an autistic diagnosis, Noah can. The progress he's made in the last year proves that to us already. Feel free to ask questions, tell us about people you know, treatments you've read about etc. - we're not terribly concerned about keeping this on the down-low (pretty obvious I guess now that it's on our blog!). I'm finding that, although I don't want to label Noah as "the autistic kid", the best way to find resources for Noah is by being open about what we're dealing with.


Anyway - hopefully you will see more of us here on the blog - updates on Noah's progress at the least. Unfortunately the bits of free time I used to put into blogging have been replaced by researching treatments and resources for Noah and thus, my blog is terribly out of date! Maybe once school starts?! Wish me luck!!!

Tuesday, July 13, 2010

Noah turns 3!

Can you say SUGAR OVERLOAD??!! This cake was definitely more candy than cake, but I knew Noah wouldn't care much about eating it anyway, so we opted to go more for effect than edibility! Noah was definitely excited when he saw his "hepday train" with the "smokes snacks"!Blowing out the candles! He actually had the right idea, just needed a little wind power from the sidelines to get the job done. By the way - had to use my crappy old point and shoot for these, so excuse the blurry photos...Opening his new scooter or "hepday bike". He was always riding Addie's pink one...decided he needed a manly blue one of his own...Giving it a test run...shoeless of course...
There's so much I want to write about my Noah, but I have to keep it short tonight (it's 1:12 am). So I promise to write more later this week on his progress.
Noah, we love your little naughty guts and are so proud of the progress you've made this year! Keep it up, buddy! Happy Hepday!

We're still alive...

Yes, I have been neglecting the blog! I'm going to start playing catch up though - so stay tuned!!!

Monday, April 5, 2010

Space Derby...

Now that Drew is eight, he gets to go to Cub Scouts, and we started right into it with his first "Space Derby". Here's the rocket Drew built with a little help from his dad (or could it be...dad built with a little help from Drew?)... "Who's rocket is this?"Drew ended up getting 3rd - and was very proud of it - even though one of his propellers cracked when it hit the end of the track on his first run. The Pinewood Derby is in April and the boys (Wade and Drew) are busy making plans! I guess I better get used to it!

Nutella...mmmmm...

Noah is definitely the worst eater of all of my kids, and that's saying a lot! I honestly don't know how the kid survives on the few calories he takes in each day. I know every parent says that, but in Noah's case, it's for real! The one thing he will eat is Nutella. For awhile I could spread it on toast and he'd eat it, but then he just started to lick it off. Now he just likes to take it straight - brings me a spoon and asks "atella?". It's now to the point that I have to hide it in the pantry or there's no chance of him eating anything else. I think it's time to stop buying it all together! Anyway, I came upon this the other day - someone must have left it within reach - and had to take a picture of his little happiness before I ended his Nutella binge...

Tuesday, March 16, 2010

A Day out with Thomas...

Oh boy...I never, ever thought I'd go to one of these things! I think Thomas is totally creepy and have managed to keep Thomas and all his 'cheeky' friends out of my house thus far (along with Barney and Pokemon). Somehow, Noah caught the Thomas fever and has developed a serious infatuation (along with all things trains). So, how could I not take the kid to see Thomas in person when he chugged into town?!
I got up early, drove the 30 minutes to get the tickets before they sold out, then drove the 30 minutes home to get everyone ready to go. Off we went...until Noah threw up on the way out. Ugh. I'd already invested more than an hour of my morning and $65 in these tickets. We were going, dang it! Noah threw up again on the way there and I almost turned around then, but heck, we were almost there! "Let's just see what happens!", I told myself. And guess what happened!!? Noah threw up on the train! Luckily we caught it in Luke's blanket...TMI?! Awesome! Oh well, despite it all, Noah had a good time and I'm glad we stuck it out. I just wish he would have felt better so he could have enjoyed himself to the fullest. Here's the pics:
Waiting for Thomas to pull in...
Poor kid! He really was excited, just didn't have the energy to show it...


Playing in the giant sandbox they had set up...
Checking out the electric trains with Grandma and Grandpa...

And here we are on the train!
I love this picture - even if it was just before he yacked...mmmmm!

Thursday, March 11, 2010

When Grandpa babysits...

You come home to things like this!
We are in the process of building a playset in the backyard (slide yet to be installed)...so Grandpa decided this was a good temporary home for it...and Noah agreed!

Wednesday, March 10, 2010

Drew's Baptism

What a great day! Drew was baptised January 23rd by his dad. We had Wade's mom and my parents here and were joined by a great group of friends to celebrate Drew's big day. We're so proud of you Drew!
The boys in their "whites"...
Drew looking very grown up in his new suit...
With Grandma Wanna...
And the proud parents...
Congratulations, Drew!

Monday, March 1, 2010

Luke is 7 months!

This says it all...Luke is on the move! As you can see, getting a picture of this kid was a little bit of a challenge! He doesn't stop these days - even to eat! He'll only eat on the go -the leftovers Noah leaves on the floor mostly! I found a bug in his diaper the other day!!! He's so close to crawling, but still has kind of a crazy hybrid scoot thing, and has started to pull up to things a bit. He's cutting all 4 of his top front teeth and doesn't sleep at night for more than a couple hours at a time (catching up for the meals he won't stop for during the day!). Still, he's the smiliest little man you'll ever meet! We went back to the cardiologist this month and good news...his VSD is officially closed! Go Lukers!

Wednesday, February 24, 2010

Bobcat...

Congratulations to Drew on earning his Bobcat! Now if I can ever get to sewing the patch on his uniform...

Saturday, January 30, 2010

Luke is 6 months!

Seriously!!?? I can't believe this kid is 6 months old! He's grown up so fast - is sitting and developed his own version of the "army crawl" - looks like he's doing "the worm" - and he's FAST! I'm happy to report he's still our little ray of sunshine, always ready with a big smile for anyone who will look his way! He sprouted his first 2 little teeth this month - the first on January 1st and the second a couple weeks later. Here's his 6 month stats:
Height: 25 1/4" (10-25%)
Weight: 16 pounds (25%)
Head Circumference: 17" (10%)

His favorite "pin-up" pose...